That doesn’t mean that they are a bad person, or that you are a bad person for not getting along with them. But for whatever reason it is difficult to make a connection and more often than not this person causes negative feelings in your life.
Often these very people are the sort with which we have a lot in common with. We have chosen the same profession and have a similar outlook on life. Still for whatever reason it just does not work out.
Maybe we just have different needs and relate to people differently. I’m the sort of person who likes to have a connection with the people that are closest to me That does not mean that I need to see them all the time as I am often very busy; but I do like people to acknowledge the general happenings that take place in my life. A friendly e-mail now and then a phone call from time to time, a hug, an acknowledgment of growth, change, love, hurt, or pain.
But when that does not happen you can’t expect it to. You have to just appreciate what you get and move on.